Readjusting

Eva's naps have been getting shorter lately, and sometimes she skips one altogether. I know babies tend to shift from taking two naps to one long one about this age, but her routine has been so messed up by all that's gone on these past couple weeks, it's hard to tell. It's not unusual for her to start getting cranky around 9am, but it will sometimes take until 11 to finally get her down. Then she sleeps through lunch and doesn't eat until 1 in the afternoon, which pushes her normal 2pm nap to somewhere around 4pm, and then it's only for about 20 minutes. I have no idea if I should keep trying to get her down earlier in the morning, or keep her up in her crabbiness until after lunch. Right now it's got me so confused I hesitate to make appointments over what might turn out to be her new naptime.