Passing The Time

I have to get out of the house at least once a day, so if I don't have any errands I go to the mall, where it's air conditioned, and walk laps. I've gone to a couple friend's houses for lunch throughout the week, too. It's nice to have a chance to visit, now that I'm not working. Occasionally I stop by Ben Bridge to chat with my former co-workers, who are as anxious for news as everyone else. I try to make sure we're caught up with the laundry or grocery shopping just in case "today is the day". The freezer is stocked with ready-to-heat meals, and the nursery only awaits our little addition.

My doula has been very helpful, calling me with advice and encouragement, and giving me stuff I can do to get things moving. Walk often and have sex. Drink lots of raspberry-leaf tea. Spend time on my hands and knees to help get the baby into to right position (she's still on her side). If contractions start in the middle of the night, stay in bed and try to rest. Don't waste my energy in early labor; I'll need it later. Call her if I have any questions, and be honest with her about any concerns or fears so she knows exactly how to help. Don't try to be strong. I feel alot more confident knowing that I have someone so knowledgeable and encouraging to help me through this. Without her, I'd be alot more nervous.